Karan Johar
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Karan Johar is...
...an Indian filmmaker whose first independent film as a director, made at age 26, was the no.1 hit of 1998 and among the most successful films of the decade. His next film as a director was the no.2 hit of 2001. By then he was all of 29 and already one of the two or three most powerful moguls of Filmistan, a status that he has retained.
Personal details
Born: 25 May 1972, Bombay
Son of the A list filmmaker Yash Johar
Sexual orientation
Why Karan Johar still won't say these three words, Jan 08 2017 : The Times of India
Effeminate, pansy, homo... KJo has been called a lot of things in his life. In this exclusive excerpt from his biography titled The Unsuitable Boy, he talks about why he's keeping the closet door firmly shut
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Karan Johar writes:
I lost my virginity at 26. Yes, it is true.
Why would I say this on record if it were not? It's not something I am proud of. It was in New York. Up till that point, I was sexually complete ly inexperienced. Even when I was a kid, I was very backward in this department... I still remember the first time someone told me about blow jobs. There was a kid in class who told me, `You know what a blow job is?' I said, `No, what is it? I've heard about it though.' He said, `You take off all your clothes and put your fan on high speed, and that's a blow job.' I said, `I can do that. What is the big deal in that?' And at 12, I remember, I removed my clothes and put my fan on full speed. Later, I told him about it and he said, `You did it!' I said, `Yeah, yeah, I did it three times.' He said, `You had three blow jobs yesterday!' I said, `Yeah, I had three blow jobs.'
While growing up, I was combating a hundred issues in my head. The thought of sex made me awkward; it almost rattled me. I thought, am I asexual? Why am I not feeling this? Why am I not doing anything? There was a lot of turbulence in my head. For me to address it, talk about it, discuss it, was a big no-no. I brushed it under the carpet all through the making of Dilwale Dulhania Le Jayenge and Kuch Kuch Hota Hai. At that time, I was also very large and was grappling with my weight issues. I felt physically undesirable. Post Kuch Kuch Hota Hai, I had actually started working a little on my looks. I had lost some weight and had groomed myself a bit. Finally , I had developed a little spring in my step, a little confidence. That's when my first encounter happened, after the release of Kuch Kuch Hota Hai, out of the country .
Today , people think that I have all the possible avenues to have all the sex in the world. But that's not who I am at all. To me, sex is a very , very personal and a very intimate feeling. It's not something that I can do casually , with just about anyone. I have to invest in it. ... I've always handled the rumours that came my way . There has been so much conjecture about my sexuality . For heaven's sake, for years there were rumours about Shah Rukh and me. And I was traumatized by it. I was on a show on a Hindi channel, and I was asked about Shah Rukh.`Yeh anokha rishta hai aap ka,' the interviewer said. He worded it in such a way that I got really angry . I said, `If I asked you if you are sleeping with your brother, how will you feel?' So he said, `What do you mean?
How can you ask me this question?' I said, `How could you ask me this question? For me, no matter what ups and downs Shah Rukh and I have been through, he is a father figure, an older brother to me. For me to look at him in that way or be subjected to those rumours was just ridiculous. But it didn't bother him. He said, `People talk nonsense, and if a man does not have an extramarital affair, he is supposed to be gay .'
I get scared of being spotted with any single man now because I think they are going to think that I am sleeping with him. I mean, firstly I have never ever talked about my orientation or sexuality because whether I am heterosexual, homosexual, bisexual, asexual, it is my concern. I refuse to talk about it...I have not been brought up to talk about my sex life. I know I am the butt of many jokes, pun intended. I know how my sexuality is discussed. I have become like the poster boy of homosexuality in this country . But honestly , I have no problem with people saying what they want about me. Twitter has the most abuse. I wake up to at least 200 hate posts saying, `Get out, you're polluting our nation, you're dirtying society' or `Shove [IPC Section] 377 up your arse.'
I get this on a daily basis and I've learnt to laugh it off...One man came up to me once very cockily at Heathrow airport and said, `Is it true that you are a homo?' He was with his wife and child, and he asked me this. I looked at him and said, `Why , are you interested?' And he said, `Hey , what what what!' And I said, `Don't what what me.' And I walked out...
Some major sections of the English media are very sensitive in the way they approach this question. I'll be asked, `Oh, there is some conjecture about, you know, your sexuality .' Everybody knows what my sexual orientation is. I don't need to scream it out. And if I need to spell it out, I won't only because I live in a country where I could possibly be jailed for saying this. Which is why I Karan Johar will not say the three words that possibly everybody knows about me in any case. I've given hints. I've stood on a platform like AIB Roast, and I had half of the people supporting me and the other half dissing me for doing this. But at the end of the day , I did what I did, and I did it with my mother in the front row, and screw you if you have a problem with that. The only thing that bothered me was when people stood on the high moral ground and said, `Why was your mother in the front row?' But she's cool...Do you know that I tried to stop her from coming but she insisted? So the thing I told her was, `Mum, laugh. Do not squirm and do not be embarrassed for me because I'm not embarrassed for myself.'
If they're going to make jokes about my sexual orientation, I'm okay about it. I'm not embarrassed about who I am. I'm not apologetic. I'm embarrassed about the country I live in vis-à-vis where I come from in terms of my orientation.I'm sad, upset and disheartened with the trolling that happens on social media... At the end of the day , this whole homophobia is so disheartening and upsetting. And then they say , `Why don't you speak about your sexuality? You could be iconic in this country .' But I don't want to be iconic anywhere. I want to live my life. The reason I don't say it out aloud is simply that I don't want to be dealing with the FIRs. I'm very sorry . I have a job, I have a commitment to my company , to my people who work for me; there are over a hundred people that I'm answerable to. I'm not going to sit in the courts because of ridiculous, completely bigoted individuals who have no education, no intelligence, who go into some kind of rapture for publicity . I've reached a point in my life where I am not going to conform to what people think I should be saying or doing...So if you have an opinion about my sexuality , then screw you. I don't care.
Edited excerpts from An Unsuitable Boy by Karan Johar with Poonam Saxena with permission from Penguin India
Events in his life
Karan Johar's shocking revelations in an Unsuitable Boy, Mumbai Mirror | Jan 17, 2017
Karan Johar's much talked biography, An Unsuitable Boy, has kept the grapevine abuzz for a long time now. The book, launched by none other than his best buddy Shah Rukh Khan, encapsulates everything right from his illustrious movie-making voyage in the industry to emotional revelations about his fall out with close friends in the industry. Here, we list out five shocking revelations made by the talented director in his highly-anticipated book.
About his sexual orientation
Karan took the media by a storm when he came out of the closet. "Everybody knows what my sexual orientation is. I don't need to scream it out. I won't only because I live in a country where I could possibly be jailed for saying this," he quoted.
The LGBT community is not very happy about his remarks. They feel that his remarks might daunt other individuals from coming out of closet. Karan also revealed that he has to deal with a lot a hatred on social media regularly. He said, "I have become like the poster boy of homosexuality in this country... I wake up to at least 200 hate posts saying, 'Get out, you're polluting our nation, you're dirtying society' or 'Shove [IPC Section] 377 up your arse.' I get this on a daily basis."
His spat with Kareena Kapoor
In a Koffee with Karan episode, he mentioned that Kareena was like his daughter. But all was not well between the two a few years ago. Karan revealed that when he offered Kal Ho Na Ho to Bebo, who expressed her desired to be paid same as her co-star Shah Rukh Khan, which didn't go down well with Karan, who then approached Preity Zinta for the role.
Karan wrote, "I offered her Kal Ho Naa Ho, and she asked for the same money that Shah Rukh Khan was getting. I said, 'Sorry'. I was very hurt. I told my father, 'Leave that negotiation room' and I called her. She didn't take my call, and I said, 'We're not taking her.'" He added, "Kareena and I didn't speak to each other for almost a year. For a year, we looked through each other at parties. It was very idiotic."
When 25 year-old-friendship ended over a tweet
The acrimonious breakdown of his relationship with Kajol was the most heartbreaking revelation Karan made in his book. He officially confirmed that their friendship is over and he feels nothing for the actress. Karan said, "She was the one who mattered to me but now it's over. I wouldn't like to give a piece of myself to her at all because she's killed every bit of emotion I had for her for twenty-five years." He added, "I can't even say that I was hurt or pained by it. I just wanted to blank it out. When she reacted to the whole situation and put out a tweet saying, 'Shocked!' that's when I knew it was completely over for me."
Losing his virginity
Karan revealed that he lost his virginity at 26, post Kuch Kuch Hota Hai fame in New York. The experience which he stated was 'nerve-wracking' is one of the highlights in the biography. KJo wrote, "It just seemed a bit stupid; it seemed fake because obviously the person assigned to please you is going to please you artificially." The Ae Dil Hai Mushkildirector also mentioned that he paid for the first time he had sex.
His equation with SRK
Karan in his book wrote about absurd rumours about him and SRK making rounds. He wrote, "If I asked you if you are sleeping with your brother, how will you feel? For me, no matter what ups and downs Shah Rukh and I have been through, he is a father figure, an older brother to me."
He also talks about the time when their relationship was going through turbulence few years ago. "Shah Rukh is a very possessive friend. I think I may have hurt him when I made a film without him. And I think I got hurt because when I did, I felt he didn't give me that paternal or fraternal feeling that I had from him otherwise. I think we were two hurt friends for no reason," Karan wrote.
Filmography
As a Director
1998 Kuch Kuch Hota Hai
2001 Kabhi Khushi Kabhie Gham...
2006 Kabhi Alvida Naa Kehna
2010 My Name Is Khan
2012 Student of the Year
2013 Bombay Talkies
2016 Ae Dil Hai Mushkil
As a producer
1998 Duplicate (co-producer)
2003 Kal Ho Naa Ho
2005 Kaal (co-producer)
2008 Dostana
2009 Kurbaan
2009 Wake Up Sid
2010 I Hate Luv Storys
2010 We Are Family
2012 Agneepath
2012 Ek Main Aur Ekk Tu
2012 Student of the Year
2012 The Suite Life of Karan & Kabir (TV Series)
2013 Gippi
2013 Gori Tere Pyaar Mein
2013 The Lunchbox (co-producer)
2013 Yeh Jawaani Hai Deewani
2014 Hasee Toh Phasee
2014 Humpty Sharma Ki Dulhania
2014 Ungli
2014 2 States
2015 Phir Bhi Na Maane Badtameez Dil (TV Series)
2015 Shaandaar
2015 Brothers
2016 Ae Dil Hai Mushkil
2016 Baar Baar Dekho
2016 Dear Zindagi
2016 Kapoor & Sons
As a writer
1998 Kuch Kuch Hota Hai (dialogues,screenplay, story)
2001 Kabhi Khushi Kabhie Gham... (writer)
2003 Kal Ho Naa Ho (story, screenplay)
2006 Kabhi Alvida Naa Kehna (story, screenplay)
2009 Kurbaan (story)
2012 Student of the Year (writer)
2013 Bombay Talkies (screenplay)
2016 Ae Dil Hai Mushkil (dialogues, story, screenplay)
As a costume designer
Mr Johar designed costumes for Mr. Shahrukh Khan in the following films
1997 Dil To Pagal Hai
1998 Duplicate
2000 Mohabbatein
2004 Main Hoon Na
2004 Veer-Zaara
2007 Om Shanti Om
